When the child is just an infant baby, it may require more time with mom, but even as an infant, the baby could be dropped off and picked up at day care or a mutual friend’s house. I mean if A and B are married and B had an affair with C and had a child, C could call A and say “There is thus and such emergency” and A could tell B and meet at the Emergency Room!Chances are that C would not be calling A with every little papercut either. Finally, if you are a Loyal Wife and your Disloyal Husband got the Other Woman pregnant, it is possible and okay for you to choose to love and raise and accept the child as your own together as a couple.Here’s the question: The first thing I want you to do is to take a look at that picture at the top of this post.
There should be a way to enforce visitation and where the child lives and when, and if there is a court-ordered custody and parenting plan, even if the Other Person goes insane, the court can help you enforce it.
Can you tell if it is a child of rape or of adultery? So before we go any further, the baby — the child — is not involved in “how it was conceived.” The child is an innocent, and the child needs love and needs a mom and dad in its life.
Now that that is out of the way, let’s jump into the actual question.
Likewise there should be clearly-defined child support, which protects you by itemizing exactly how much is owed to whom and when…and can document/prove who gave how much to whom and when.
Of course, if you are the Disloyal Spouse you owe it to the child that you created to take care of its needs and provide for the child, same as if you and your spouse had a child together. Exchanging the child does not require contact either!