Dating sites and apps have become so popular that we all know someone who has found love online.But for many people looking to date, sifting through endless profiles and spending evenings swiping left to right can get super tiring.It can take some getting used to if you’re used to the typical “flowers and chocolates” type, but it can be so much more rewarding. They love learning and knowledge for it’s own sake; if they have an interest in a subject, they’ll dive into it with great eagerness. If you’re looking to get tied up and spanked, you’ll find geeks are ready, willing and incredibly able. Geek guys will appreciate your love of XKCD and Avatar: The Last Airbender. (Hey, geek guys: want to know what else women like about you? You need to remember that many geeks are so used to rejection that they it; the dialogue in a geek guy’s head is a neverending chorus of rationalizations and worst-case scenarios.They’ll pick up skill sets just because it interests them. That intellectual curiosity and imagination I mentioned earlier? They have played through every possible outcome in their mind and every single one of them ends with laughing and pointing, occasionally with a drink thrown in their face. When you couple that with the occasionally crippling approach anxiety, nerdboys are unlikely to make the first approach.” The cliche rejoinder of “Yes: show up” is a tempting (and frankly, obvious) response, but it does a real disservice to both men and women.
Take the usual difficulties in meeting a man and throw in some painfully shy guys who’re used to rejection and mockery from the opposite sex and trying to win their hearts has gone from challenging to Nintendo hard, even when you already share a mutual love of Joss Whedon and retro video games. I’ve been the guy who desperately wanted the girls to approach him and the one who’s done the approaching.
The reason is simple: Most of us are attracted to people who seem secure and content, regardless of their relationship status.
I don't believe there's one approach to finding love since dating online and meeting in the "real world" can both garner great results.
Consider Where Your Type May Hang Out Imagine the kind of person you want to meet. It's amazing how many of us hang out at the same spots and wonder why we're not meeting anyone new.5.
Consider Where You'll Have Fun, Regardless Don't go anywhere where you'll be miserable if you don't meet a guy.