Players know you want to feel he’s really into you, thinks you’re the one, thinks you’re so pretty, etc. You can enjoy what a new guy says to win you over, but don’t believe it, taking the bait all hook line and sinker. Men don’t necessarily do these things just to get their way or be mean.
He knows what a woman wants to hear, so it’s easy to say the right stuff.
You meet a new guy for coffee and have a great first date on the weekend. He texts once or twice but doesn’t ask about the weekend. Well, you purposely left the weekend open hoping he would call. While you and your date may have a great time, it doesn’t mean the same thing to him as it does to you.2. While he certainly enjoys your company, he’s more relaxed about seeing you and this is not his top priority.3. Why make plans when he can get the women to call him and take care of it? I know it seems harmless to make a simple phone call to ask about weekend plans. You delay finding this out if you don’t wait to see when he’ll call without your interference.2.
He was easy to talk to, had a good sense of humor, and had good answers to your questions. Then he finally calls you Friday at the end of the day to talk about the weekend. Last weekend you were free at the last minute, so what’s the big deal about making plans? If a man doesn’t have the same dating agenda as you, for example, he’s into casual dating and you are seeking long-term love, again, you might as find out sooner rather than later.
A man who sets a day and time right away is showing a potentially deeper level of interest in you so watch his actions.
When he follows through on promises and what he says, then he’s worthy of seeing again.