Remember, this is not an interactive sex program you are playing with.There are real people on the other side of that screen.Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.
D/s is fun, D/s is good, but D/s is also not all there is in life. Pass worded rooms are invite ONLY, passwords will only be given out by the room owner when necessary. Note this is a Femdom BDSM chat; Male Dom and Male Switches will not be tolerated.Drop outs often occur in the chat room through associated connectivity problems and are just a fact of using the internet, they occur to us all. Below are just some ideas and suggestions, you can take or leave them, that's up to you. (Yes, guy subs, I'm talking to YOU) The only people you impress are those who have been on line dominants for less than an hour or the Dommes who got their idea of D/s from internet fantasy fodder.Even if you are the kind of person who meets someone and wakes up married the next day, try to demonstrate a little more discretion in choosing someone who will expect actual obedience from you.Even a cyber relationship needs some mutual ground for understanding.