It's not always straightforward to read whether someone is keen for a no strings encounter when you meet them in a bar, but on a site dedicated to extramarital flings, it is obvious!
The etiquette is very much that you don't enquire too much into the marriage of the other party.
The word 'illicit' captures the naughtiness involved in a good old bit of extracurricular activity and it explains why so many people do it!
Being sensible and straight laced all the time can get dull, and it is human nature to seek a thrill.
I’ve been faithful to my husband for 17 years, but I had the urge to feel this rush of adrenaline again, to seduce again…
But I needed to be very discreet, because my family life makes me happy and I didn’t want to change anything to it.