Although neither tried to fight this irresistible magnetic force, they knew if they tried, it would have been futile; no different than a guppy swimming up a raging river trying to mimic its salmon cousins. When they met, the electric charge of their shared chemistry sent a palpable shock though them both.Almost instantly, they lost control of their facial muscles.She imagined Jake to be a brave and confident man who could light up any room with his charisma and charm.Jake seemed to know exactly what he wanted, and had a story about how he always got what he wanted – or, as he would say, “grab any bull by the horns and make his life happen.” His apparent strength and dominant personality sent shivers up Melissa’s spine.As Jake was paying the waiter, Melissa reminded herself that she was a good girl and would not sleep with Jake on their first date – no matter how she felt about him.Jake walked Melissa to her car, where he initiated a deep kiss that seemed to have no beginning or end.
Both were blessed with beautiful faces upon which their eyes could feast.
They felt like “regular” people who just wanted the all-American dream of true love.
They were blind to their revolving door dating pattern, which they simply dismissed as a phenomenon of the modern Internet age of romance.
For the love addict and codependent, Internet dating sites are the crack cocaine of romantic exploration.
Although the love addict consciously wants true and lasting love, they are drawn to the exhilarating rush of love.