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We joked that I should answer the door in a long hippie dress," says Janet Williams*, who's wearing jeans and a T-shirt as I step into the living room of her suburban Orlando home. " says her husband, Eric, who looks like he's dressed for a round of golf in a polo shirt and shorts.

They're low-key and welcoming, even though I'm here to grill them about what they do naked: specifically, getting intimate with other couples at swingers parties.

They're willing to let me share everything except their real names and address, in order to protect their identities.

On paper, Janet and Eric are more Main Street than Wisteria Lane. Janet has a master's degree, and Eric enlisted right after high school.

"Janet and I are married, we are best friends, and we do everything as a couple, including this," says Eric. "I couldn't control that my sex drive had plummeted, and when you've been with the same person a while, sex can start to feel same-old, same-old." Eric became concerned; his past marriage had ended after he and his wife stopped being intimate and both had affairs.

"I see a lot of my friends' marriages end because they get stuck in a rut," Janet explains. "I remembered how bad cheating had made me and my ex feel, and I'd never do it again," says Eric.

"He says he it, but that doesn't do me much good." Eventually, though, they burnt out on Adult Friend Finder. She and Eric hammered out ground rules: no kissing other people, no doing anything without checking with the other person first, and always staying together.

For them, swinging is something they do to enhance an already strong bond.

They talk about what turns them on and what's out-of-bounds before every sex party, and when they go to one, they stay together so everything's in the open.

When their trip ended, Eric began looking for other things to keep the sparks flying back home.

That's when he found adultfriendfinder.com, a pornographic site that allows anyone over 18 to post video.